[Artigo]5 Segredos da Mente Masculina

Será que todos os homens são iguais? Ou são previsíveis? Será que é fácil compreender e desvendar os segredos da mente masculina? Apesar das particularidades dos gêneros e de cada um de nós, para a maioria existem algumas coisas que não mudam.

Desvendar os segredos da mente dos homens pode ser desafiante, pois até aqueles homens que se espera serem mais previsíveis possuem segredinhos que podem ser inconfessáveis para suas parceiras, pois eles acreditam que podem causar problemas na relação, então muitos se mantém em silêncio sobre assuntos que eles consideram coisas de homem, portanto difíceis de serem falados com as mulheres.

Como muitas vezes nós mulheres não entendemos muito bem os comportamentos masculinos, podemos tentar justificar algumas atitudes deles, mesmo que essas atitudes não tenham uma justificativa convincente, então é interessante tomar cuidado com as justificativas ilusórias.

 Aprender e saber lidar com a personalidade dos homens descobrindo os segredos da mente masculina além de ser possível, é necessário para manter um relacionamento agradável e satisfatório.

Vamos lá?

#1 Eles mentem para evitar discussões

Os homens são muito mais práticos que nós mulheres, enquanto mulheres dão voltas mirabolantes sobre uma situação específica e fazem diversas interpretações, eles preferem simplificar e muitas vezes acabam mentindo ou se calando diante de situações que para eles são triviais. Além disso, ele já pode saber exatamente o que a mulher fará e mente a fim de evitar as DR´s  que eles não gostam nem um pouquinho (mas que nós sabemos exatamente que uma DR das boas faz diferença). Se ele mentiu e você percebe medo e certa ansiedade nele por causa do que pode acontecer (neste caso você se chatear muito porque ele errou feio), o melhor a fazer é respirar fundo e esperar as coisas se acalmarem mais para que você fale sem nervosismo e racionalmente, e mesmo que haja uma briga ou desentendimento maior, deixe bastante claro para ele que você prefere a honestidade e a verdade.

#2 Sim, eles adoram sexo e vêem pornografia assiduamente

Eles tem fantasias e desejos que muitas vezes são privados, porque muitos homens acham difícil falar com a parceira o que eles preferem na cama, não sabem como perguntar ou fazer com que você saiba. Isso pode ser resolvido com uma boa conversa entre o casal.
Além disso, os homens são seres visuais, eles curtem assistir esse tipo de conteúdo mesmo que façam sexo todos os dias, três vezes ao dia e ame sua parceira, as escapadinhas para assistir pornografia irão acontecer.

#3 Eles não são bons em adivinhar o que nós mulheres estamos pensando

Exatamente, os homens são diretos, e as mulheres ao adotarem uma postura que dificulta o entendimento dos homens prejudicam a si mesmas, pois se aborrecem e prologam situações indesejadas. Imagine o quanto uma atitude onde nós mulheres não deixamos claro o que queremos e esperamos que o parceiro “adivinhe” ou leia os sinais que estamos emitindo pode causar mágoas. Então opte pela clareza e diálogo.

#4 Eles querem sentir que correspondem às expectativas de suas parceiras

Engana-se quem pensa que somente as mulheres se sentem inseguras no relacionamento, apesar de existirem mais mulheres com essa tendência, eles também precisam sentir que a pessoa com quem estão se relacionando é confiável, eles querem sentir se o poder masculino deles está funcionando, se realmente são homens fortes e competentes, capazes de manter uma família.

#5 Eles olham para outras mulheres

Quando você perceber que seu parceiro olhou para uma outra mulher é muito provável que realmente ele tenha olhado, se foi uma olhada ocasional, não há motivo para começar uma discussão, pois como eu já disse aqui os homens são visuais, vivem mais esteticamente para a forma e beleza das mulheres, e essa característica é construída também historicamente.

Agora que você está por dentro dos segredos dos homens, a grande sacada é evitar criar expectativas sobre as atitudes deles principalmente se baseando nas suas atitudes dentro da relação, porque agora você entende que homens e mulheres pensam um pouco diferente em algumas situações. Saber lidar com as diferenças é fundamental.

Beijos 

 

Renata Araujo Coach

Oi, tudo bem? Seja bem vinda! Sou Psicóloga, Coach de Vida e Relacionamentos, Consultora em Relacionamentos Afetivos para mulheres, sou uma eterna estudante, aprendiz e apaixonada por ajudar.

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